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Not the best, but not the worst
Tried few affair sites and here’s what I figured out: AM looks great site before you pay,then you will get conversations with someone,but who knows who they are.After a while when your nearly out of credits they just stop replying.Also the ones whose profile you have checked out,just happen to be the ones allways on line,funny how they never reply though.I didn’t want to keep paying,so I left the site.
There are real women on AM
I met my wonderful, hungry girlfriend on AM 21-months ago and I can assure you that there are real women on the site. Besides my GF, over around 3-months, I met three other real women. I’m in my seventies and the women that I met ranged from 52 to 63, at the time that I met them.
Yes, there are scamsters on AM. Don’t respond to young women writing you from Timbuktu, promising things that they can’t possibly deliver. Focus on women, in a reasonable age range, in your close geographic area.
My winning strategy was to search for women within 30-miles of me, from 50 to 65+ years, that had just signed up for AM. I searched every evening and messaged my girlfriend within 30-minutes of her hitting Enter to activate her AM account. Any woman on AM is basically saying, “Someone, please f*ck me” so there will be a line of horny men forming as soon as she signs up.
You first message is super critical. You get one swing of the bat and you can only get a base hit, or you’re out of the game. Share your private pictures immediately before following up with a Message, but DON’T include a picture of your $#*!. There’s plenty of time for that later, when she asks for it. (She will). You message must be customized to suit her Profile. Always mention being discreet and how you’ll protect her and her existing relationship. I always mentioned respecting her.
You’re not the only one that she’s considering, so keep on the full court press. I had a lunch date with my GF, three-days after meeting online and we were naked soon thereafter. On your first casual meetup, talk about her and how attractive she is. Work on schedules that could lead to repeated dates. Explain briefly why you’re there, but don’t dwell on your significant other. Be positive about how you’re looking forward to a relationship. (FWB, NSA, whatever is the case, but match her expressed desires).
I’ll share another tip that’s been crucial in keeping our 21-month relationship discreet and vibrant, it’s Signal. Signal is an encrypted phone app, that provides end-to-end encryption, on Signal’s servers, not your phone company. You can set your activity to delete after a time period. (We use 24-hours). We also use encrypted thumb drives, with complex, strong passwords, to keep our explicate photos, videos and sexts. She thought she’d lost hers once, but we weren’t worried, because of the protection.
Guys, AM is real and there are real, hungry women on there, seriously searching for men. For men, it’s competitive, so you must bring your A-game. Good luck.
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There are real women here and I found a great one.
August 29th, 2018 • Previous review
I’m a 70-year old married man and spent around three-months on AM. At first I was bombarded by young women from all around the country, running various scams and plots. I just ignored those and focused on searching in my area.
At first, I looked for women 50 and older and actually connected with two that are fifty and seemed genuinely interested in me. One turned out to be about hundred pounds heavier than her Profile shots and a few years older. I spent a coffee on her. Another started showing signs of being a control freak, as we corresponded over about three-weeks, without actually meeting. I got out of that with only an expenditure of time. The AM messaging made it safe and easy for both of us.
I settled into a routine of looking for women 60 and above that had signed up with AM recently. They have a filter for that. I would check in the morning and evening. For security reasons, many real women do NOT show a Profile picture and don’t answer questions like “Do you like oral sex”. Instead they’ll say they’re interested in “Whatever Excites Me.” My now-girl friend’s profile was like that.
I saw my girlfriend within the first hour that she signed onto AM. You have to write a really good introduction to get to first base. I talked about understanding her need to be discreet, but that her limited Profile kept me from evaluating our potential as a match. I asked if she would look at my Profile and let me know. I said that the Profile was as complete and honest as I knew how to make it and that my picture was very recent and accurate.
I talked about how important it was that I respect and protect her privacy and volunteered that we could communicate through AM to get safely started. I talked about it being humbling to go on AM to seek a partner, but that we were both there for similar reasons and I would respect her.
Asking them to look at your Profile is important. Once she responded, I was quick to share my social media profile. I said that it was up to the man to go first, since the woman is more at risk for stalkers and other types of sick perverts. She was quickly sharing equally and we went off AM and used Signal for private, encrypted communications. A couple of months in and several incredible dates and Signal is still our main form of communication.
So, I was on AM for three-months. My girlfriend joined on a Tuesday night, I connected with her that night, ALONG WITH 15 OTHER GUYS. We had a lunch date by that Friday and booked a hotel room for the next Saturday. Our sexual relationship is through the roof good and we’re already setting 4-hours sessions going out three-months. We’re lucky enough to actually fit a four-day trip together, coming next month.
Are there real women on AM? Hell yes, I connected with three and landed an incredible partner. We’re both extremely happy. Do the men greatly outnumber the men? Hell yes. I figure it’s around 15 or 20-to-1, so you’ve really got to be on your game. My girl friend had a couple of other lunch dates and she says that the guys really screwed up by talking about their work and families, etc. Wake up, this is AM and she’s already said that she’s looking for a sex partner. Talk about how cute or sexy she is and how lucky you feel to meet such an attractive woman. Talk about times that you can get away with her in privacy. Confirm that your situations match. (Both married, etc.) Reaffirm that being discreet is an absolute and that this relationship will be important, but secondary to those already existing. You don’t have much time and you WILL NOT get a second shot. Bring your A-game. Spring for a nice place and act like you’ve been there before.
Remember, she’s gone on AM and basically said that she’s looking for a sex partner. Most of the women on AM are going to have high sex drives, like us, so don’t pussyfoot around like it’s a first date with someone that you met at church. Be respectful, courteous, etc., but you’re there to decide if you’re going to book a hotel room. My girl says that her other suitors screwed this up royally.
Oh, something else about that qualifying date, TOUCH HER. If it’s only touching fingers or holding hands a bit, show that you’re physically attracted. In my case, someone that I knew from church was at the very next table! We could only touch fingers, but I said that I wished that we could do more. Also, I said that I wanted to walk her to her car and steal a kiss. She says that sealed the deal. A woman wants a man that desires her and can hardly resist her, so you’ve got to do that.
One last thing. Initially, you’ll be bombarded by 20 and 30-somethings with all sorts of come-ons. That’s not AM, that’s those girls, running their scams. Please ignore them. None of them want to meet a 70-year old man that lives four states away.
Bottom line, there are real women on AM, looking for sex partners. The odds are against men, but if you’re patient and persistent, it’s realistic to think that you can find a partner.
Still #1 affair site
AM is still #1 affair site. Huge database of members, very well established brand. There are few cons though:
– High price
– Recent security breach
– You have to pay to have your personal data vanished
However, I still regularly use it (and if you know how to treat housewives, you’ll get to the 4th base), but to double, or even triple up my chances, I use another great affair website recommended by lots of other guys here: Nostringsaffair.com.
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I’ve given this a good shot and been comparing it to other main online affairs sites like nostringsaffair.com. It falls short of that site, which simply has more women. But it is also better than some of the complete time wasting sites ive tried out too. From my research its clear that a lot will depend on where you live, US and Euro cities tend to be fine but other places just dont have the women. But a part from that the site works fine and the app is decent. Just dont tell the wife!
I like AM, it’s really simple to use. Another site I tried recently was nostrongsaffair after reading some good reviews. They actually look quite similar but in reality NSA seems to have some better features. But anyway, nothing wrong with AM as an option for beginners to affairs dating.